Phil didn't intend to put her on the spot as he did but at least a friendly and neutral face could help, "I-I know...it's a lot, but you're still here, there must be something the Sponsors can send you. You made it this far."

Maybe there was something she could get motivated with, "It's my second one, a-and I wish I could tell you things get easier but they don't. You just get stronger. Where'd you come from before you were reaped? There has to be someone you can join up." Birds of a feather and all that.